Do video games lead to aggressive behavior? What Every Parent Should Know
The video games have shaped the lifestyle of children, teens and even adults. From the newest gaming consoles to the most anticipated releases, it’s no wonder they are dominating conversations at home and at school. But while gaming enters the mainstream, so too are the worries among parents about its impact — particularly with violent video games and aggressive behavior.
What does the evidence say about video games and aggression? Although the research has been mixed, an international study in April found that in time, playing violent video games can increase physical aggression in some children. But Nicholas J. Westers, Psy. D., ABPP, a clinical psychologist at Children’s Health℠, emphasizes that this problem isn’t a blanket one for families.
“It’s really hard to show a direct connection between games and aggression,” Dr. Westers says. “But, owned responsibly, video games can remain a healthy, enjoyable hobby for both children and adults. Parents are the ones who set the limits and lay the foundation for healthy gaming habits.”
In this piece, Dr. Westers explains the link between video games and behavior, the strategies we can use to encourage healthy gaming habits, and practical tips for parents aiming to keep gaming a source of positivity in their child’s life.
Key Takeaways for Parents
- Recognize video games may affect conduct: Children may emulate the conduct of their video game models, especially if they relate to them.
- Establish clear rules, and limits, from the beginning: Guidelines for when, for how long, and under what circumstances your child is allowed to play.
- Join in their gaming universe: Play with them, validate them, and let gaming be a way to connect and help teach lessons about feelings and sportsmanship.
- Watch for warning signs: Signs of trouble may include heightened aggression, social withdrawal, poor sleep or declining grades.
In taking an active role in how and when their children game, parents can help ensure video games remain a part of a balanced, healthy lifestyle — without compromising their children’s emotional and social well-being.
